FM6 + FM8 + FM10 Gain +0.01 (+30deg phase) looks to be working for now - see attached screenshot.
The other settings which I tried and it didn't work are listed below,
zero phase Gain 0.01 (IY05 increasing, IY06 decreasing).
-30deg phase gain 0.01 (IY05 increasing, IY06 decreasing).
We lost lock and then during the next lock Corey applied the above settings (in bold fonts) and it seems to be working fine. Hence, I will continue with this for the next few lock stretches. Not committing it to lscparams yet since things can still change.
FM6 + FM8 + FM10 Gain +0.01 (+30deg phase) have been committed to lscparams for ITMY mode 05/06.